What is sponsorship?
It is often said that sponsorship was the genesis of AA. It was early in Bill Wilson's sobriety when he encountered a powerful urge to drink. A thought came to him: “You need another alcoholic to talk to. You need another alcoholic just as much as he needs you!”
On June 10, 1935, Bill met with Dr. Bob at his home in Akron, OH. Dr. Bob had been trying desperately, though unsuccessfully, to stop drinking. Out of Dr. Bob and Bill Wilson's common need Alcoholics Anonymous was born. While the word “sponsor” was not used at that time, Bill carried the message of hope and recovery to Dr. Bob. Through sharing, the co-founders of AA discovered that their own sober lives, as well as countless others, could be enriched beyond their wildest imaginations.
It was then that the fundamental and powerful principle of one alcoholic talking to another alcoholic about the consequences, and particularly the feelings, of this hopeless illness that can lead to lifelong sobriety.
What does A.A. mean by sponsorship? To join some organizations, you must have a sponsor — a person who vouches for you, presents you as being suitable for membership. This is definitely not the case with A.A. Anyone who has a desire to stop drinking is welcome to join us!
In A.A., sponsor and sponsored meet as equals, just as Bill and Dr. Bob did. Essentially, the process of sponsorship is this: An alcoholic who has made some progress in the recovery program shares that experience on a continuous, individual basis with another alcoholic who is attempting to attain or maintain sobriety through A.A.
When we first begin to attend A.A. meetings, we may feel confused and sick and apprehensive. Although people at meetings respond to our questions willingly, that alone isn’t enough. Many other questions occur to us between meetings; we find that we need constant, close support as we begin learning how to “live sober.”
So we select an A.A. member with whom we can feel comfortable, someone with whom we can talk freely and confidentially, and we ask that person to be our sponsor.
Whether you are a newcomer who is hesitant about “bothering” anyone, or a member who has been around for some time trying to go it alone, sponsorship is yours for the asking. We urge you: Do not delay. Alcoholics recovered in A.A. want to share what they have learned with other alcoholics. We know from experience that our own sobriety is greatly strengthened when we give it away!
Sponsorship can also mean the responsibility the group as a whole has for helping the newcomer. Today, more and more alcoholics arriving at their first A.A. meeting have had no prior contact with A.A. They have not telephoned a local A.A. intergroup or central office; no member has made a “Twelfth Step call” on them. So, especially for such newcomers, groups are recognizing the need to provide some form of sponsorship help. In many successful groups, sponsorship is one of the most important planned activities of the members.
Sponsorship responsibility is unwritten and informal, but it is a basic part of the A.A. approach to recovery from alcoholism through the Twelve Steps. Sponsorship can be a long-term relationship.
For answers to some of the often-asked questions about the rewarding two-way street called sponsorship — for people who may be seeking sponsors — for A.A. members who want to share their sobriety through sponsorship — and for groups that wish to develop sponsorship activity, please read the A.A. General Service Conference-approved pamphlet:
Questions & Answers on Sponsorship.